Stalkers are intelligent and have the ability to know every move their victims make. They can reach into phone lines, your emails, computer, know every key you type, have chips put into your body or teeth to be able to locate you any second. Does this sound like a good life? It sounds like a life of control and being controlled by another person, is not a life, it is slow murder, torture and a death sentence for the victim. It is a lonely and isolated life.
I use to be against guns. Never even wanted to own a gun, all though I remember my brothers having a BB gun when we were kids, that was the extent of guns in my life. But I have changed my mind, after being stalked and preyed upon, like vultures do to their prey. Guns are needed for protection. Our world is not the same as it was five or ten years ago. It is getting more ugly everyday. You never know when a gun might protect you and others?
People have lost respect for themselves and others. Integrity is a lost virtue, by many. You are to compete for a partner, compete in the workplace, compete at school. Competition breeds aggressive people and some of these people will do whatever it takes, to get what they want, at all costs. The norm for love and healthy relationships has changed. These days, it is all about sex, sex, sex. If you are not willing to have sex the first or second night you go out with someone, you are a loser.
Turn on the T.V. and watch and listen to the commercials. You need to look a certain way, buy certain products, talk a certain way, take the right pills, lose weight to get a partner and the list goes on. No wonder young girls, are obsessed with what they look like. Society is telling them if you do not look like this you are a loser. You don't even have to watch T.V. shows or movies to understand the influence they have on minds, all you have to do is listen to them. They give ideas to people, to create these exact scenes in real life. Especially when people are obsessed with the T.V.
Read this chilling article How Bullying Creates Suicide Bombers and you will understand the destructive effects, bullying has on teenagers and anyone for that matter. Here is a paragraph from the article:
Although the vast majority of people who are harassed or persecuted do not seek to escape through death, a recent meta-analysis of 37 independentstudies showed that bullying greatly increases victims’ likelihood of suicidal behavior. The determining factor is usually the interaction between victims’ personal psychological vulnerabilities and the types of trauma they experience. Some people can stand up to the worst forms of cruelty without losing their will to live, while others struggle to ever recover from being victimized. In the cases of suicide, these individuals’ sense of violation and humiliation is so deep and overwhelming that it permanently shatters their worldview, and they become convinced that they will never be happy again.
If you want people who want to die, you either find volunteers who are already depressed or suicidal, or you break the spirits of vulnerable individuals and kill the life force within them
What are we teaching our kids? We are destroying them, abusing them and terrorizing them. We are creating kids that go out into the world and kill others, because they have been terribly abused. We are neglecting to be responsible for our actions as adults and parents. When will we ever learn life is fragile, life is short, life is for living, not sacrificing, terrorizing and tormenting?
Tomorrow is another year. It is the year of 2013. Can we make better choices, take actions of integrity, not going with the flow, stand up when someone is being abused, stalked, bullied or terrorized.? I implore you, urge you and challenge you to stop doing what others tell you to do, question authority, and start taking actions of integrity. Because you could be contributing, to creating another Adam Lanza.