Friday, February 22, 2013

Secrets Are Evil and Destructive

Isak Dinesen says, "a secret is an ugly thing." Boy is he right. For over ten years and probably more like twenty, there has been an ugly secret going on in my life. The world isolated me for at least thirteen years. Destroyed, terrorized and sabotaged my life, because a rich and famous man said so. Alireza Fatemi has been stalking my life for over ten years, with the world. The world feels sorry for Alireza Fatemi and not me.

Why? Because he is rich and famous and totally sabotaged my life. Put me on the streets. Played divide and conquer with my world. Even women's rights activists and stalking advocates support this secret and abusive man. That is how ugly this secret is. Alireza Fatemi fucked up my life, with his wife and girlfriend, he lied about and the world.

Alireza Fatemi was going to Hawaii, Europe and all over the world having the time of his life, while he terrorized me. Until one day his world started to unravel. It all came apart. The man who has been isolating me from the world, was isolated from the world. The dark and ugly secret, does not get any more insane.

In the twelve step program of Alcoholics Anonymous, we often hear the phrase, "you are as sick as the secrets you keep." There are a lot of sick people in this world, because thousands of people are keeping a really dark secret that has effected my life for over ten years.

People don't realize the effect secrets have on their lives. They are like a quiet cancer that eats away at our souls and devours our relationships. When we enter into a contract of secrecy with someone, we give a little piece of ourselves away. If we give too many pieces of ourselves away, we our devoured.

An important part of the recovery process, is to give up secret keeping. It is only when we live our life in the open, accept the responsibility for the decisions we have made and own our behavior, that we begin to know health.

As the French say " nothing is so burdensome as a secret."

I am over the dark, ugly, destructive, secret going on in my life forever. This world can live in that secret, for the rest of their fucked up addictive lives. I am over it and this world is going to see just how over it I AM! I am glad the world feels sorry for Alireza Fatemi and not me.

Sunday, February 17, 2013

A World Full Of Fucked Up Love, Everywhere

A new report out of South Africa indicates that Oscar Pistorius carried Reeva Steenkamp downstairsfrom the bathroom where he had allegedly shot her, and attempted to perform mouth-to-mouth resuscitation while attempting to save her life. The report comes via Beeld, an Afrikaaans-language newspaper in South Africa...  Yahoo News

Love, is very abusive. Some people think love is controlling and owning others. Destroying, terrorizing and sabotaging their lives. Then you have the lovers that kill the one they claim, to love. Love is over rated. Love is full of lies. Love is a great JOKE, utter BULLSHIT!

Tuesday, February 5, 2013

Spectre of Rudd stalking Gillard

As Prime Minister Julia Gillard struggles to regain momentum after a run of bad news, Labor appears to be again aiming to shoot itself in the foot.
Gillard last week announced that the next election would be held on September 14, effectively launching what will be the longest federal campaign in Australia's history...  
Read more @:  New Zealand Herald

Man arrested for stalking, strangling woman

Lee County deputies arrested a 42-year-old Lehigh Acres man after he allegedly broke into a woman's house and tried to strangle her, Monday.
The victim called deputies and told them that a man named Harold Mitchell had broken into her home through the back sliding glass door...
Read more:  NBC

Saturday, February 2, 2013

Oak Harbor senior citizen accused of stalking, harassment

A 68-year-old Oak Harbor man is accused of stalking a 911 dispatcher and threatening to kill a law enforcement officer and his family, court documents indicate.,,  
Read more @:  Whidbey News Times

Police: Estranged husband of Oviedo city manager arrested for stalking

44-year-old William Breazeale, a pilot for Airtran Airways, has been charged with aggravated stalking, cyber stalking, harassment and making a credible threat to a person to his estranged wife, Kathryn Breazeale, even after a restraining order had been filed in November 2012...  Read and watch video @:  Click Orlando

Report: Missing NYC woman found dead in Turkey

A New York City woman who went missing while vacationing alone in Istanbul was found dead on Saturday, and police were questioning 11 people in connection with the case, Turkey's state-run news...  Read and watch video:  Yahoo News

Saudi preacher spared after raping, killing daughter

 Saudi preacher who raped his five-year-old daughter and tortured her to death has been sentenced to pay “blood money” to the mother after having served a short jail term, activists said on Saturday... 
Read more @:  The Raw Story

The ugliness of religion, especially Islam, religious laws, religious leaders and this world. A very sad story.

Friday, February 1, 2013

Who Are The Stalkers

Forensic psychologists who have studied stalkers generally divide them into four general categories. Each stalker is different and may show signs from different categories.

4) False Victimization Syndrome
In these very frustrating cases, the stalker may believe that he is the victim. Sometimes he even reports his victim to the police as having stalked him...  Read more @:  Francie Web

South Korean student allegedly drugged and raped in India

A SOUTH Korean student holidaying on her own in India was allegedly drugged and raped by the son of a hotel owner as she visited a tiger reserve in central India, police have said...